Checklist for Expectant Parents Considering Adoption

Choosing an adoption agency is one of the most important decisions you will make in your adoption If you are considering adoption, you may be experiencing a wide range of emotions—uncertainty, love, fear, hope, and everything in between. For many expectant parents, adoption is a deeply personal and loving choice made with their child’s future in mind.

There is no one “right” path. What matters most is that you have the information, support, and space to make the decision that feels right for you.

This checklist is designed to guide you as you explore and research your options and ensure you feel confident, supported, and empowered throughout the process.

✅ 1. Do You Feel Fully Informed About Your Options?

If you are considering adoption, it’s important to understand all of your options—including parenting, adoption, and available support resources.

You deserve:

Clear, unbiased information
Time to process your decision
The ability to ask questions without pressure

At Courageous Hearts Adoptions:
We believe adoption should always be a choice—never a pressure. Our role is to provide information so you can make the best decision for you and your child.

✅ 2. Are You Being Treated with Compassion and Without Judgment?

You should feel respected, supported, and cared for—no matter your circumstances or what you decide.

Look for support that:

Meets you where you are
Honors your feelings and experiences
Allows you to move at your own pace

At Courageous Hearts Adoptions:
Our team is made up of compassionate professionals, many with lived experience in adoption. We are here to support you with empathy and care every step of the way.

✅ 3. Do You Understand the Types of Adoption Available?

Adoption is not one-size-fits-all. You have the ability to choose the kind of relationship you want moving forward.

Options may include:

Open adoption (ongoing contact, updates, visits)
Semi-open adoption (limited or mediated contact)
Closed adoption (no ongoing contact)

If you are considering adoption, understanding these options can help you feel more confident and in control of your decision.

At Courageous Hearts Adoptions:
We support flexible, individualized adoption plans that reflect your comfort and your wishes.

✅ 4. Will You Have a Say in Choosing the Adoptive Family?

Adoption is not about giving up control—it’s about making a thoughtful, intentional choice.

You should be able to:

View and review family profiles
Speak directly with prospective parents
Take your time deciding what feels right

At Courageous Hearts Adoptions:
We provide carefully vetted waiting families and support you in choosing a family that aligns with your hopes for your child.

✅ 5. Are You Receiving Emotional and Mental Health Support?

Adoption is an emotional journey—before, during, and after placement.

Look for support that includes:

Counseling during pregnancy
Someone you can reach when you need support
Continued care after placement

At Courageous Hearts Adoptions:
We provide lifetime counseling and emotional support because your well-being matters long after placement.

✅ 6. Are Your Practical Needs Being Supported?

You may need support with everyday needs during this time—and it’s okay to ask for help.

Support may include:

Transportation to appointments
Assistance with living expenses (as allowed by law)
Help creating a plan for delivery and placement

If you are considering adoption, having this kind of support in place can make a meaningful difference in your experience.

At Courageous Hearts Adoptions:
We help coordinate practical resources so you can focus on your health and your decision.

✅ 7. Do You Have a Plan for the Hospital and Delivery?

This is your experience, and you deserve to feel comfortable and supported.

You can choose:

Who is present during delivery
How much time you spend with your baby
How and when the adoptive family is involved

At Courageous Hearts Adoptions:
We help you create a personalized adoption and delivery plan centered on your wishes.

✅ 8. Do You Feel Supported After Placement?

Adoption does not end at placement—and neither should your support.

You deserve:

Continued emotional care
Support as you process your experience
Resources to help you move forward

At Courageous Hearts Adoptions:
Through our Embrace • Empower • Renew program, we provide ongoing support for birth parents after placement.

✅ 9. Do You Feel Confident in Your Support Team?

The people supporting you should make you feel safe—not pressured.

Ask yourself:

Do I feel heard and respected?
Do I feel supported in my choices?
Do I trust this team?
Is this agency licensed and operating ethically?

Working with a licensed adoption agency helps ensure you are receiving safe, regulated, and ethical care.

At Courageous Hearts Adoptions:
We are a licensed, nonprofit adoption agency committed to ethical, transparent, and compassionate care.

✅ 10. Do the Agency’s Values Align with Yours?

Adoption is deeply personal, and the agency you work with should reflect values that make you feel safe and respected.

If you are considering adoption, it’s important to choose an agency that:

Respects your identity and lived experience
Supports you without judgment
Honors your voice and your role in the process

At Courageous Hearts Adoptions:
We believe everyone deserves support and respect—regardless of marital status, sexual orientation, religion, or background. We are committed to inclusivity, dignity, and relationship-centered care.